In Islamic terms, treat relatives as such
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In Islamic terms, treat relatives as such
Every human being has the right of Allah Ta'ala and His servant. Those who sever kinship cannot go to paradise. Allah Ta'ala has given such a stern warning. Islam also has strict guidelines for taking advantage of one's relatives. Keeping the bond of kinship is the root of good fortune and breaking the bond of kinship is the root of misfortune. The weakening of this bond is the cause of the deterioration of the family, society and the state.
The following are
some hadiths on how to treat one's relatives from an Islamic point of view:
1. Hadith:
Narrated from Hazrat Bahaj bin Hakim (RA). He said, the Prophet (peace be upon
him) was asked, who deserves the best use? He said, "Your mother."
Then who? Your mother. Then who? Your father. Then your closest relatives and
your closest relatives. (Tirmidhi, Abu Dawood)
2. Hadith:
Narrated from Hazrat Abdullah bin Salam (RA). The Prophet (peace be upon him)
said, O people! Establish peace, provide food, maintain kinship. Pray at night
when people are asleep, then go to heaven in peace. (Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah)
3. Hadith:
Narrated from Hazrat Solomon bin Amer (RA). The Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) said: Giving to the poor is one thawab and giving to a
relative is twice as much. (Charity and protection of kinship) (Tirmidhi,
Nasai, Ibn Majah)
4. Hadith:
Narrated from Hazrat Maymuna (RA). He said that when it was revealed to the
Prophet (peace be upon him) by releasing a slave girl, he said. If you gave
this money to your aunt, it would be a great reward for you. (Bukhari, Muslim)
5. Hadith:
Narrated from Hazrat Jabir bin Samurah. The Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) said: When Allaah gives wealth to any of you, let him spend
it first for himself and for his family. (Muslim).
. Hadith: Narrated
from Hazrat Abu Horairah (RA), the Prophet (SAW) said, Allah created kinship;
Then he said, "Are you not satisfied that I protect the bond of the one
who protects your bond: I break the bond of the one who breaks it."
(Bukhari, Muslim).
. Hadith: Narrated
by Hazrat Abu Horairah. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)
said: The origin of mercy is from mercy. Allah says, ‘Whoever pleases you, I
also protect his bond and whoever breaks your bond, I break the bond.’
(Bukhari).
. Hadith: Narrated
from Abu Horairah. A man asked the Prophet (peace be upon him), "I have
relatives, I want to be kind to them, but they harm me." I am kind to
them, but they are cruel to me. He said, "If they do as you say, you will
give them hot coals, and as long as you do so, you will have a constant helper
from Allah." (Muslim)
9. Hadith:
Narrated from Abu Horairah. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) said: Learn from your ancestors how to have kinship with your relatives,
because kinship is a way of love within the family, a means of increasing
religion and a way to delay death. (Tirmizi)
10. Hadith:
Narrated from Abu Horairah. A man said to the Prophet (peace be upon him), I
have a dinar (gold coin). He said, "Spend for yourself." He said, I
have another dinar. He said, "Spend it for your children." He said, I
have another dinar. He said, "Spend it for your wife." He said, I
have another dinar. He said, "Spend it for your servant." He said,
"I have another dinar." He said, "You know best how to spend
it." (Abu Dawood, Nasai)
11. Hadith:
Narrated from Hazrat Ayesha (RA). He said. The Merciful is hanging on the Throne
saying that whoever has a bond with me, Allah has a bond with him and whoever
cuts me off, He has a bond with him. (Bukhari, Muslim)
12. Hadith:
Narrated from Hazrat Anas (RA). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him) said: Whoever wishes to increase his earnings and delay his death,
let him keep the ties of kinship intact. (Bukhari, Muslim)
13. Hadith:
Narrated from Hazrat Anas (RA). He said that Hazrat Abu Talha was the richest
of the Ansar among the Ansar. The Birha Udyan in front of the mosque was more
dear to him. The Prophet (peace be upon him) used to enter the garden and drink
pure water. When this verse was revealed, "Unless you spend what you love,
you will not be able to acquire religion at all." Abu Talha came to the
Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) and said, "I prefer Birha Udyan to
my wealth." . I gave it to God Almighty. I hope for its reward from Allah.
Spend it according to the command of Allah. Hazrat said, Blessed, blessed. It
is a valuable asset. I heard what you said. I hope you distribute it among your
relatives. Abu Talha divided it among his relatives and cousins. (Bukhari,
Muslim)
14. Hadith:
Narrated from Hazrat Amr bin As (RA). The Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) said: My father's family is not fond of me. My friend is
Allah and the righteous among the believers. But the kinship that I have with
them, I will defend with all my heart. (Bukhari, Muslim)
15. Hadith: It is
narrated from Abu Horairah. He said, "Which charity is the best?"
When asked, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said,
"Give to the poor." Give to relatives first. (Abu Dawood)
16. Hadith:
Narrated from Abu Horairah. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) said: The money that you spend in the way of Allaah, the money that is
freed from slavery
The money you
spend for the poor, the money you spend for your family, the highest reward is
the money you spend for your family. (Muslim)
16. Hadith:
Narrated from Hazrat Jaber bin Motayem (RA). The Prophet (peace and blessings
of Allaah be upon him) said: He who breaks the ties of kinship will not go to
heaven. (Bukhari, Muslim)
16. Hadith:
Narrated from Hazrat Ibn Umar (RA). The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, it
will not be enough to maintain the bond of kinship. Once the bond is broken,
reconnecting is the real kinship. (Bukhari)
19. Hadith:
Narrated from Hazrat Abdur Rahman bin Auf (RA). He said that the Prophet (peace
be upon him) said, Allah said, ‘I am the Most Merciful. I have created mercy
and brought it out of my name. Whoever binds him, I will bind him, and whoever
cuts him, I will destroy him. '(Abu Dawood)
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